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"A
friend of mine used to say that I saw the glass half empty, rather
than
half full. He was right.
I did. I do. So this is a kind of reminder to myself of the
many reasons why I should show gratitude for just being here-and-now
in the world. Sometimes, when you feel yourself to be in a
very
dark place, it's hard to remember what those reasons are. At
such times, you have to get back to the simplest things. It's
about
an existential way of living your life, so that you can see
the light, and appreciate all the beauty that's around you".
"Children
have such an instinctive way of reacting to the world. They skip
because they're happy. They delight in the moment - in the macaroni
on the plate before them. We lose that freshness as we grow. Life
knocks it out of us. Yet still, there's this miraculous capacity
for new growth. In my darkest times, I'd walk with my head bowed,
seeing only the cracks in the pavement slabs. But then I'd notice
the weeds pushing up through them, like a metaphor for hope. All
is not desperate. Change comes, even when it seems it won't."
"This
is a song filled with sorrow. But it's written at that point of
wearied acceptance, when you've cried so much that you're all washed
out, there are no tears left, and you bow to the inevitable. After
any loss, there has to be that time for grieving. It's something
we must go through, sooner or later, without exception. It's part
of the human condition. From the moment we're born into the cycle
of life, we each carry the fact of our eventual death with us.
When it comes, literally, or in terms of the death of a relationship
... that's the hurting time."
"This song grew
out of a turmoil of over-thinking. The mind's such a fascinating
thing. It's able to carry on a multitude of conversations with
itself. As the core part reacts to a given situation,
another part will be observing that reaction and commenting on
it. And another part will be observing that second reaction and
commenting on that, and so on. Here, the music reflects that, in
the sense that there are two dialogues on-going (the principle
one, with its extended phrasing, and a second, reacting to the
first) both searching for understanding."
"This
has a kind of Alicia Keys feel to it. It's about a longing
to be with someone. It's a song about desire, about Eros.
And as we all
know, desire is so toxic, so addictive. It goes way beyond the
rational. It's far, far deeper than that. You may know entirely
that the person you're being drawn to is the wrong person, but
does that stop you? No. The relationship may be bad for you. It
may be unhealthy, non-supportive, wrong in every way ... But boy,
are you going there, and usually at speed. Something a lot of us
have felt, I think."
"I have a
lot of powerful emotions, and I think it's better for me to acknowledge
them in song form than to try and hold them inside.
I don't like to feel anger or aggression, but sometimes you have
to just hold your hands up and admit how things are for you. Otherwise,
your bitterness will fester, eroding the vessel that contains it.
That said, this is not a revenge song, and shouldn't be read as
being against this person or that. It's just an acknowledgement
of feelings that we all have from time to time, and which all of
us have to process."
"It's strange,
isn't? Here in the western world, we're all of us supposed to be
living these successful, evolved, fulfilled lives,
and so it's really quite shocking and exposing when someone says,
'Actually, there is failure in my world and yes, I am lonely.'
Well, I'm prepared to say that about myself. And take even the
happiest individual away from their safe haven of friends, family,
familiar places, and they'll have that feeling too. But it's not
even about physical isolation. You can be lying next to someone
and still know what it's like."
"The
title's very touching for me. It kind of sums everything up. I
found myself looking at this bag of songs that I'd assembled and
here was this one, the saddest of them all. Very clearly, it's
about the end of a relationship. But it's also a song about acceptance.
It's overflowing with acceptance. There's no point me trying to
hide the fact that this is an album of songs about negative emotions.
That's why it's called 'Bare'. But it's also about channeling those
emotions, and overcoming them. And in that sense, it's uplifting."
"When
I was 11, a great aunt of mine died, and I went with my parents
to help clear her home. It turned out to be one of the biggest
lessons
of my early life. An awakening moment. Everything was as it always
was - the sofa, the chairs, the table set and ready - and yet suddenly
it was like a theatre set, because she was gone. Erased. And that
happens again and again as you progress through life. Situations
that seem permanent are suddenly altered. Circumstances change.
People disappear from our lives. It's a song about that."
"This
is about miscommunication. Non-communication. When you're on track
in a relationship and everything's reciprocal ... Well, what could
be more wonderful than to be fully engaged with another human being,
and one that you love? You talk, and they listen. They talk, and
you listen. Both of you understand. But once things go off track,
everything gets twisted. Suddenly, it's as if you're speaking two
different languages. You cannot make yourself understood, and every
attempt makes things worse. It's the ultimate in frustration."
"At first, this seems like one of the bleakest moments
on the whole album, because when you have depression, you go down
to a very dark place. This is a prayer, one from someone who doesn't
really believe in a God, and so isn't convinced anyone will be
listening. But the very fact that they're reaching out for a benefactor,
given such low expectations, represents a kind of optimism - a
shift from negative thinking patterns to more positive ones. In
that
sense, that reaching out is symbolic of
progress, and of a looking to a better future."
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